When we are doing your "best" to win how come We don't get what We want?
Dr. Robert Anthone would answer with A question He asked often, "What if others want something different than I want and I am involved with them. How does the universe (GOD) decide which person gets what they want?"

His answer is when you have a vision of something and it feels like
other people are shooting it down or they don't want what you want,
it is not their shooting it down or what they want that is threatening your manifestation. The problem is that you are letting their vision of your vision disconnect you from your vision.

So why do You get disconnected you from your vision? Lack of  faith in self!

Then the pain you feel is not because they are hindering your vision - the pain you are feeling is because you are out of alignment with YOUR vision.